Fiance/Future Mother In Law help. Advice needed. 10 points!!?

Yuck to mother in laws/future mother in laws! I completely understand how you must feel, and you are 100% justified in how you feel, I would feel the same. It sounds like your right, his mother is being controlling, and protective, and is obviously a little too attached. My best suggestion would to seriously sit down with your fiance and tell him once and for all how you feel. Tell him it's not ok that his mother is dictating when you should get married, tell him you love him, but what his mom is doing is hurting you. I am so sorry this is happening to you, it's very frustrating. Just be honest to your fiance and stand up for what you want. I wish you the best of luck!